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See Ming on Sim
I have a confession to make. I'm in a bit of trouble with
my fiancée because she wants me to write a little page
on her, and I've been putting it off for awhile. It's not
that I didn't want to do it. It's just... how do you begin
to describe the person you want to spend the rest of your
life with? How do you describe a person you are so connected
with, a person you see from so many angles, you're no longer
seeing with your eyes, but through your heart and soul.
I used to tell people that I'd be happy to stay single forever,
so I shouldn't have been surprised when a friend asked me
a few days back what made me change my mind. I shouldn't have
been, yet I guess I was because I didn't have a ready answer
for her. I guess I blame See Ming. She came along and changed
all that bachelorhood business.
How did she do it? I have no idea.
I just know I want to be with her for the rest of my life.
I could describe what she's like and what she does and how
she looks, but it wouldn't really do her justice at all. I
could tell you she finds people jobs, refuses plastic bags
at the grocers and has enough friends to fill a small town,
but that wouldn't even scratch the surface. You could say
we have a lot in common, but then we also have a lot of differences.
You could say we laugh a lot together, with each other, as
well as at each other, but that's not the all of it. You could
say we get along well, but it's so much more than that. You
could say it feels good when we're together, but it's not
just a feeling.
We've known each other for years and it is mind-boggling to
think that we've only been dating for less than a year. I
didn't always know I wanted a girl like her, but when I met
her, I suddenly felt like this was really the person I ought
to have been looking for. Unfortunately, I didn't summon the
courage to ask her out until three years later, but after
that first day together, I was hooked for life.
To all the single guys out there, the best wish I can give
you is that I hope you all find your See Mings. |
